Saturday, October 30, 2004

I single again.........

a day to be remember..........

I single again.

i still don't know why. but is true. i now single again.
she just say. she want to live alone. want to be single.
then i say OK. that all.

what to say...............??

Thursday, October 28, 2004

80 Most Romantic / Sweet Things To Do For Your Girlfriend/Boyfriend

(80 steps to having a good relationship)

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Back rubs/massages.
3. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ backlight. Whisper to each other.
4. Cook for each other.
5. Make out in the rain.
6. Kiss every part of their body.
7. Hold hands.
8. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other, not sex)
9. Buy gifts for each other.
10. Roses.
11. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together.
12. Wear his clothes.
13. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
14. Incense/candles/oils/backlights and music make for great cuddling.
15. Kiss at every chance you get.
16. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, and then whisper I love you.
17. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
18. Write poem for each other.
19. Kiss/smell her hair.
20. Hugs are the universal medicine.
21. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
22. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
23. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie.
24. Spend every second possible together.
25. Tell her that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to. And mean it.
26. Look into each other's eyes.
27. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
28. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
29. When in public, only flirt w/ each other.
30. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.
31. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.
32. Buy her a ring.
33. Sing to each other.
34. Read to each other.
35. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name
36. Draw. (If you can)
37. Let her sit on your lap.
38. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
39. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
40. Kiss her stomach.
41. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
42. Guys like half-shirts.
43. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deals.
44. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
45. Unless you can feel their hear beating, you aren't close enough.
46. Dance together.
47. Sit in front of a roaring fire.
48. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
49. Carry her to bed.
50. Waterbeds are fun.
51. You figure it out.
52. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
53. Break every one of your parent's relationship rules for them.
54. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
55. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
56. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
57. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
58. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.
59. Ride home and call them.
60. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
61. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have.
62. Be Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points)
63. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
64. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
65. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them.
66. Hang out with his/her friends. (More brownie points)
67. Go to church/pray/worship together.
68. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
69. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
70. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.
71. Everyone deserves a second chance.
72. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
73. Make sacrifices for each other.
74. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to them.
75. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
76. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
77. Buy her a charm bracelet/necklace w/her name on it.
78. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
79. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
80. Stand up for them when someone talks trash. 81. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, "Sweet dreams."

Wednesday, October 27, 2004

steps to a happy Marriage ...........

1 Start each day with a kiss.
2 Wear your wedding ring at all times.
3 Date once a week.
4 Accept differences.
5 Be polite.6 Be gentle.
7 Give gifts.
8 Smile often.
9 Touch.
10 Talk about dreams.
11 Select a song that can be "our Song".
12 Give back rubs.
13 Laugh together.
14 Send a card for no reason.
15 Do what the other person wants before he or she asks.
16 Listen.
17 Encourage.
18 Do it his or her way.
19 Know his or her needs.
20 Fix the other person's breakfast.
21 Compliment twice a day.
22 Call during the day.
23 Slow down.
24 Cuddle.
25 Ask for each other's opinion.
26 Show respect.
27 Welcome the other person home.
28 Look your best.
29 Wink at each other.
30 Celebrate birthdays in a big way.
31 Apologize.
32 Forgive.
33 Set up a romantic getaway.
34 Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?".
35 Be positive.
36 Be kind.
37 Be vulnerable.
38 Respond quickly to the other person's request.
39 Talk about your love.
40 Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.
41 Send flowers every Valentine's Day and anniversary.
42 Admit when wrong.
43 Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires.
44 Pray for each other daily.
45 Watch sunsets together.
46 Say "I love you" frequently.
47 End the day with a hug.
48 Seek outside help when needed.

Monday, October 25, 2004

to mom.....

«余光中的一段詩»
母難日,今生今世,我最忘情的哭聲有兩次,

一次在我生命的開始,
一次在妳生命的告終,

第一次我不會記得 是聽妳說的,
第二次妳不會曉得 我說也沒用,

但兩次哭聲的中間啊! 有無窮無盡的笑聲,
一遍一遍又一遍,迴盪了整整三十年,
妳都曉得我都記得。

Sunday, October 24, 2004

Love is just Love.............

通常女生被男生喜歡的原因有:
1.脾氣好
2.心地善良
3.可愛
4.朋友很多
5.善解人意
6.有同情心
7.才藝非凡
8.很有氣質
9.體貼
10.反正他就是喜歡你嘛

通常男生被女生喜歡的原因有:
1.溫柔
2.帥就是帥
3.認真作一些事情
4.不想看到你哭
5.保護妳
6.把你當小妹那樣的寵愛
7.長的高高的
8.體貼
9.不會亂發脾氣
10.幽默

Saturday, October 23, 2004

Slow slow walking, Long long way......

i think all love should walk slow slow..... but please remember that... i not telling u to stop.. u can walk slow even it more look like u stopping, but please ...don't stop at anu time at all. cos when ever it stop, that all, it stop. u can some time run run a bit so u can have some think to remeber later on when two of u old. slow love can make u worm all night long even till die. it's more stable to make ur love slowly.... feel good!

Monday, October 18, 2004

Simple Life, Simple Love, Simple Thinking.....

Y love is not a simple thing, y ppl always want to make it become complex ??? love just simple, i love u, u love me, i trust u, u trust me, i care for u , u care for me, happy? walk walk sea side, eat eat food, make make love, have some fun......... Y everything not what 1 thing it should be, life just can't not be simple....... anyone tell me pls.... how to be simple..........

Sunday, October 17, 2004

to will or not to will...

saw a sticker at the back of a car.... it say "to will or not to will...", it all i want to u all.... 28 old, i done nothing ! cos i "care" too much on others thing that i shouldn't care, or it dosen't need my care at all. i tot i be happy to do that ..... maybe i wrong all the way... just thank that... if i don't care bout others ppl, what would it be like.... someone will kill me ?? or someone hate me whole life.. what wrong ?? it still didn't change any of my life ??? i still me, they still they. just care for me, myself.... care to be happy ... care to do whatever i wish to do..... pls lar.... action be ur will, not action be others will.......

Thursday, October 14, 2004

1st day........1st time.......

Not feeling well.... i don't call it stupid, just call it "LOVE". don't feel like loving any one at all, not my wife not "her", not even my dourght.... i searching for something, something...... something out there waitting for me... r u feeling that too ??? guess what, we all nobody....... at least .... me r. just feel good that i just nobody.